4 days till…

I’m almost positive that this is the busiest time of the year for most of us. We all rely on this website for updates, well wishes full of hope, inspiration and forward movement. So, while I’m baking cookies, making fudge, wrapping gifts, trying to sell houses in a market that just won’t cooperate, decorating, taking care of the dogs and Emily, last minute shopping with Nate and spending every moment in between with Michael, a few days may slip by between updates. Fah la la la la la la la la

Michael is holding his own and now humming “I can see clearly now…” as he looks across with the room with clear vision. The long awaited glasses were delivered late Thursday afternoon. His blood pressure was high this afternoon, and every now and then that blood pressure is a gentle reminder for us that Mike is not out of the woods. Please remember that over-stimulation is still a huge factor that works against his ability to progress.

We are all so excited to be a part of Michael’s journey and it’s so easy to get caught up in the moment, especially if you haven’t seen him in awhile. I love being able to see the positive energy cultivating when visitors realize how far he’s come. His level of progress is inspiring and the rush of emotion is hard to contain. It’s so much easier for me to read him and to be in touch with his needs because I’m there every day. So, don’t feel uncomfortable if you’re not sure…I’m a phone call away, just ask.

This is what I’ve learned so far;

20-30 minute visits are fine, if the mood is mellow. If you know that you’re really excited, then you’re probably talking too fast, too much, or too loud. Step out of the room for about 15 minutes and slow your roll.

If there are more than two people in the room at a time, take turns talking.

Short conversations are best, with breaks in between.

You may notice that his answers are not always correct or true. It is ok to correct but probably better to revise the question and give subtle prompts if you know the answer.

Although at first glimpse he may seem ok, he has at least a year of rehabilitation to go, the least of which is physical. It’s so easy to lose sight that he still has a serious brain injury.

Just be yourself, he doesn’t need to be entertained.

We will be at the hospital Christmas Eve and Christmas Day spending our holiday with Mike. We welcome all of you to stop by and share family time with us as you travel to and from your own family festivities. We are very blessed to have Michael with us and we know your prayers and the grace of God are what made it so. We wish you the merriest, most blessed Christmas ever.

xxoo